How many times hove you entered into a debate with someone with a different viewpoint from yours only to realize they really didn't have a valid argument to put forth because their opinion was based solely upon something they were spoon-fed and not upon their own experience or research? It's happened far too often to me to count. One more than one occasion my opponent's argument was based entirely upon emotion and not upon fact or even anecdotal evidence. How is it possible to enter intelligent debate with anyone about anything under such circumstances?
The answer: You can't.
Skip over at GraniteGrok illustrates just such a scenario, relating the experiences of a retired career military officer invited by a professor at California State University in Chico to discuss his experiences with culture in the military community. The phenomenon I mentioned above became quite apparent to this retired officer in a very short time.
The answer: You can't.
Skip over at GraniteGrok illustrates just such a scenario, relating the experiences of a retired career military officer invited by a professor at California State University in Chico to discuss his experiences with culture in the military community. The phenomenon I mentioned above became quite apparent to this retired officer in a very short time.
A few years ago I was asked by the instructor of a philosophy class, then titled "Roots of War," to discuss with his students the culture of the U.S. military community. After identifying myself as a former career military officer, I discussed my impression of our military's culture. When I was done, a young woman who had been glowering at me and holding her arms tightly across her chest raised her hand. When called upon she vehemently said, "I don't agree with you. I don't think it is anything like that. You have just been brainwashed by the military."Perhaps that was his crime, using the truth rather than his emotions to put this poor ignorant lass straight. But wait! It gets even better!!
"OK," I said, "what do you think our military's culture is like?"
"Well, certainly nothing like that," she sputtered. I could see some heads in the class nodding in agreement.
I asked, "Could you share with us your experience in or around the military?"
"I haven't had anything to do with the military," she indignantly replied.
"Have you extensively studied the U.S. military or worked with current or former members of the military?"
"No," she angrily said.
"So where have you gotten your impression of the military's culture?" I tried to ask softly.
"I am entitled to my opinion, and I think you are a Nazi!" was her voracious reply. The class was clearly enjoying her attack on me at this point and the philosophy professor sat smugly satisfied.
I decided to end this ridiculous exchange: "So let us review. You have no personal experience or knowledge of the military. You have not studied the military. You cannot explain why you disagree with me. And you think you are entitled to your opinion. Well, I agree with you on one point. You do have a right to an opinion, and I have a right to point out that yours is an ignorant opinion--ignorant because by your own admission it is not based on any facts, education, research, or experience. Your opinion is apparently based on nothing more than simple ignorant prejudice."
The class was silent for a moment. The young woman began to sob and yell at me, "You can't say that to me!"
I replied, "Yes I can, because it is the truth."
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